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food for thought
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I never fail to amaze whenever i tell people my stand on relationships or even marriages.

As long as i am being told , my partner is free to have flings with other girls. And vice versa.

And why the fuck do i have such a warped perception ?

Because i believe that at the end of the day , as long as he comes back to you , you're the eventual winner.

Infidelity , in my context , only occurs when there is no trust between a couple.

In other words , you can be out having a one night stand with that hot young intern and i won't even be bothered as long as i'm in the know.

It can be as simple as telling a white lie about his family's wealth , or as awful as a full-blown affair with another woman , complete with illegitimate kids.

I don't believe that you can tahan facing the same person all your life , true love or not. Men especially , they tend to stray. Even the most family-oriented ones.

So why not allow him more freedom to ensure a happy long-lasting marriage ?

But of course if he takes advantage of your open-mindedness by sleeping with other women 7 days a week and ignoring you completely , then its time for a divorce.

Maybe i'm saying all these to justify my own actions that stems from my very short attention span.

And maybe i might even take all my words back when someday i commit to a real relationship.

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listening to : the cardigans - lovefool